The only way to get your life in order is to build mental strength to face any kind of discomfort you need to, in order to overcome conflicts in life. That mental strength arises when you have self-belief, when you have a strong emotional anchor. When you don’t have self-belief or an emotional anchor, leave it to divinity or your deity. Surrender to it with 100 percent belief. Your belief should be unshakable, like jumping into the ocean knowing you will be saved. That belief will flow immense mental strength into you, pushing you to act consciously, not driven by fear but by awareness.